The big problem here is no-one wants to be a lancer, but everyone wants to [filtered] about them and tell them how to play the game.
If you want a lancer, roll one.
Maybe EME should make lancers more desirable to play, rather than just desirable to be a meat shield.
But till they do that, the Lancer has every right, having put in the time and effort you are unwilling to put in, to kick people or quit a group.
the only way this will be fixed is if zerk/warriors / slayers get more tanking abilities ie taunts & effective blocks so that every party doesnt have to wait on a lancer. end of story
Zerk/Slayers will not get tanking abilities, they are not meant to be tanks.
Warriors are getting more tanking ability in next major patch.
The problem with them is even with their tanking abilities, they are the only 5 star difficulty class. Lancers are easy mode tanks, warriors need a brain.
Side note to OP:
You really expect Jesus to step in and change Queuing?
I don't see how Jesus is going to help this.