First, a little introduction. A lot of people go on and on about this server's community being terrible. I typically try not to believe it and give everyone a chance to show their colors. Unfortunately tonight almost an entire guild has disappointed me.
As a bit of a background on what happened, my boyfriend didn't care enough to bother with making a forum post but I'm pretty disgusted with what happened so I am. Anyway, he was farming in his typical spot in Thrallhold. He's a sorc so most people should be familiar with how someone with a sorc farms. If not here's a video someone else made.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uRNnoX5vJKg
As you can see, it's kill a [filtered] ton of mobs, loot, kill a [filtered] ton of mobs, loot. Even other classes use the method, just not as many mobs (depends on the player/class I guess). It's completely obvious when someone is farming like this. You see them running around killing things over the same pile of loot. It's very hard to assume someone left tons and tons of loot on the ground and the person you see there just ran up and started killing mobs on top of it all.
But, as obvious as that is, my boyfriend has now had about 3-4 people come up and start looting his stuff as he's killing another mob or even when he just stopped killing and started looting. Fortunately 2 of them gave him his loot back.
Now the most recent incident tonight, someone came up and started looting his stuff and of course my boyfriend says "why are you looting my stuff?" to which the other guy replies "can't loot other peoples' stuff herp a derp". Nothing surprising here other than someone being a general jerk. So he whispers the guy's guild leader to talk to him about it. The guilder tells him "it's the most retarded thing he'd ever heard and it's way too long winded and he's blocking him now". So my boyfriend gets on an alt to try again. Keep in mind, he's trying to be civil with them. I know him, I know how he is. He wouldn't just start spamming them "[filtered] YOU YOUR GUILD SUCKS YOU GUYS ARE DICKS etc etc." Again, the guild leader refuses to hear him out. Once he's back on his sorc, my boyfriend starts getting insulting and unnecessary whispers from other members of the guild including the one who stole his loot.
This was about an hour or two ago. Maybe getting close to three, who's counting. He's still getting whispers from that guy. "smash your face on your f key and pick up your loot","loot opens up after 2 minutes I didn't do anything wrong", "clearly you haven't played any hardcore MMO's in EVE you would have learned to not trust anyone" and so on. All of this btw kind of contradicts the original statement he made that "you can't loot other peoples' loot" implying that it was his loot and it just happened to be near my boyfriends or something.
My issue with this is that neither the guy or the guild leader could be civil enough to listen to what happened and talk it out. Calling my boyfriend a retard and blocking him wasn't necessary. He wouldn't have demanded the gold back or anything, and if it was an accident he would have understood. It's the rudeness that we're taking issue with and lack of responsibility from a leader of quite a large guild.
This brings my to my question on etiquette:
Given that it's obvious when someone is farming a spot (you seriously have to run up and start looting with the intention of taking that person's loot, there's no grey area here) is it wrong to expect people to respect that you'd killed a mob and you haven't looted it yet? And let me emphasize that. Haven't. Looted. It. YET.
We both realize there is a 2 minute window on loot remaining closed to you but is it wrong to ask that people not intentionally try to take someone's loot while they're still there? The 2 minute timer doesn't necessarily mean it's no longer YOUR loot. It's there so the loot doesn't go to waste if you don't want it and you run off.
And with that, my request to EME:
Can loot be changed to a distance limit instead of a time limit? Instead of the 2 minute window it is now, can the system be changed to open up the loot if the person goes far away enough? Say...out of viewing distance whatever that is?
TL;DR:
How would you feel if you were farming a bunch of mobs and someone came up and started taking your loot right next to you
Also, I'm not here trying to flame that guild or anything, I didn't name who it was. This is just to get the quesiton out there.
Edited by:
Sammy333
10 months ago